My boss told me she was paying my replacement more and she expects to be able ask me questions indefinitely after I leave.

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    I’m leaving my second job after a yr of draining work with a controlling boss who doesn’t truly perceive something administrative. It’s a small non-public psychological well being observe and I was the one one within the workplace from March to September. I’m burnt out.

    I taught myself 95% of that job and put so many methods in place that I created, which they desperately wanted in case of an audit. When we employed a brand new individual in September, my boss told me we have been going to be paid the identical and freaked out at me for any time we each spent on the clock as I educated her. Pretty quickly, I was answering one million questions off the clock.

    Last week, I told her I plan to depart however didn’t give a particular timeframe as she is a genuinely good therapist and I didn’t need to depart the observe in a lurch by being abrupt. She texted me on Saturday and told me I was coaching my replacement on Wednesday.

    Two minutes earlier than the replacement bought there, she knowledgeable me she was giving a increase to the opposite lady and beginning the brand new lady at a number of {dollars} an hour more than I make ($16). When the lady bought there, my boss told her that I’m too anxious for the job and implied I’m not able to being a therapist (my objective – I begin grad faculty this yr).

    I told my boss I’d be obtainable for 3 weeks from my final day to reply questions by textual content as I’m nonetheless the one one who is aware of quite a lot of issues, however that I’d now not be obtainable after that. She simply seems to be me within the eye and shrugged and says “I mean I’ll always be able to ask you.” And I simply froze.

    I’m so offended and harm. I really feel that I’ve been taken benefit of for the final yr and that she’s nonetheless attempting to.

    Edit: I know I’ve tousled in attempting to preserve the connection and what I’ve let her get away with. Hopefully I can be sturdy and agency as I depart and chalk this up to a studying expertise.

    Edit 2: Wow the response has been enormous. You guys undoubtedly woke me up. I simply despatched out a observe broad e-mail, letting everybody know my final day is Wednesday and they want to ask me any questions they’ve earlier than then. I laid out some expectations, not fairly as agency as a few of you instructed however it’s an enormous step in advocating for myself which I’ve at all times struggled with. Thanks for the suggestions!

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    #117678

    Mcdibbles

    Tell her your consulting charge is 3x your earlier wage per hour, and also you promote these hours in 8 hour increments, no matter time used.

    #117676

    reddogrjw

    if you’re not being paid, do not reply any questions and block her

    #117684

    smugglebooze2casinos

    what is the worse that might occur in case you simply block her? and refuse to reply any questions.

    #117686

    Piper6728

    Quit on the spot and block her calls

    She can go screw herself

    #117690

    the_simurgh

    **instantly block her**, the day after you allow, in case your not getting paid your not answering shit. you supplied to assist her get acquainted with what she wanted to do and he or she took it as your going to work for her without cost for ever.

    #117722

    KansasBiM4F4Dating

    Politely inform her to stay it up her ass and ignore her!

    #117682

    GWSDiver

    *Hell* sure you’re being taken for 100% granted. I might not even be as good as you are- esp since she insulted your character to the brand new particular person. What a complete bitch.

    #117712

    meowmeow_now

    No, inform her you’ll stroll out at the moment until she matches your wage.

    Whenever you resolve to go away, you’ll not reply any of her calls. You can inform her this forward of time if you’d like or not, in case you really feel intimidated by her response.

    #117702

    TheFatherlandSenki

    Don’t give her the free labour, she was underpaying you to start out with so that you already misplaced some huge cash simply working for her.

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