+101 – So me and my girlfriend are meant to be getting married in august this year. We have a kid together and a mortgage. We are both 28.
About 6 weeks ago she said she felt wierd etc and thinks she loves me because I’m the baby’s dad and no on a relationship level. I gave her space and supposedly this made her realise how much she loves me and misses me etc.
I come home from work and nothings changed. Get the odd compliment. Never hugs and rarely kisses me. It’s always me making the first move with everything. Weirdly still when she goes out with her mates she’s not getting in untill 6 am. This is everytime she goes out now.
She asked me before what’s going on with the wedding. I said cancel it and made various reasons regarding the info I mentioned above. Basically just said your living a single life at the minute and have no respect for me or the baby with these 6am nights out. Do you miss me? No. Do you hug me. No. So why would I want to get married to someone who doesn’t do none of these things and genuinely isn’t interested in me.
Hopefully I’m making the right decision.
What do you guys think?