If you can’t handle my body I can’t handle yours

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+3129 – This happened over 15 years ago, I was training as a classical ballerina and I also danced at the church and was part of the youth group.
Dancing at church was really different especially because of the clothes we were allowed to use, nothing to tight, nothing that would show too much skin, so instead of a bodysuit and tights I would use t-shirts and pants, but depending on the movement the t-shirts would come up and people could see my belly. So the youth leader decided that the girls from the dance group had to use a bodysuit under the t-shirt so the boys wouldn’t few the temptation, the whole thing was ridiculous.

One weekend some of the girls slept in my house and we came up with a plan. So on Sunday morning we talked to the youth leader, we explained that we understood that we had to cover our bodies especially because we felt the “temptation ” over the boys bodies, they were always with low pants, showing there underwear and stomachs… it was hard on us. So we asked that the same rules of modesty that were applied to us would be applied on the boys as well.

Because it was a joint effort, 15 girls had this talk, the leader had no way but to do as we asked, the boys were crazy mad with the new rules, especially because they had to buy belts to keep there pants in place.
I left that youth group a couple of months after that because they had a very strict cut out age, but the rule was in place for a couple of years after I left.

2022-04-04 14:58:51

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  1. Reply
    Most-Artichoke5028 April 5, 2022 at 3:04 am

    You know why Baptists don’t make love standing up?

    Somebody might think they’re dancing.

  2. Wait, they got away with belts? Body suits for the boys too please. Gunther style.

  3. You did a good job, balancing the scales.

    If you ever come across anyone trying to tell you that you’re a distraction again, you could even use the bible, Matthew 5:29 has some choice words: “If your eye causes you to sin, gouge it out, and cast it away from you.” I’ve always wanted to use that one.

  4. What’s good for the goose, is also good for the gander.

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    Training-Divide1630 April 5, 2022 at 3:04 am

    I went to a super strict christian camp as a teen…girls had to wear shorts/culottes and skirts that went to our knees…no matter what we were doing. One day a group of guys comes from their cabins wearing umbros. Umbros did NOT reach their knees! (And most of the church schools that were attached to the churches that fed this camp…the girls had to play any and every sport with their knees covered!). Next I knew, boys were stripping off their shirts…playing shirts vs skins. I happened to be right by the male and female lead counsellors while this happened, and questioned the “short” shorts, then the skins. Got the pat answer of guys were visual, girls weren’t. “Hmmmm….so the girls now surrounding the soccer field just happen to enjoy soccer, and aren’t there to check out all the cute, half naked boys?”—as I said that, girls were coming from all directions to check out the boys! The game got stopped and the boys had to put on their shirts! …please don’t tell/insinuate that teen girls don’t like to look at a teen boys/men’a bodies!! Esp when half the girls in my cabin had been going on and on all week about the male lead counsellor’s hotness! I’mnot gonna lie…there was a reason I was hanging out near him when all this transpired!

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    Ok_Cartographer4475 April 5, 2022 at 3:04 am

    A church group being hypocritical?

    Say it ain’t so, Joe. Say it ain’t so!

  7. Brilliant MC!

  8. Honestly, I’m surprised you were allowed to partake, if they knew you were a ballerina. Cuz, you know, those ballerinas must all be whores since they wear snug clothing. 🙄
    Seriously impressed with the way ballerinas can contort their bodies. Grace defined, whereas I define “klutz” doing the most mundane things.

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    Ancient_Educator_76 April 5, 2022 at 3:04 am

    I love that, no matter where, no matter what the content, there’s always someone who is the self-proclaimed Malicious Compliance Officer, the Brainy Smurf of the group to let us all know that the story, somehow, isn’t Malicious Compliance. They are wrong, every single time. Nice MC.

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    South-Patience-7732 April 5, 2022 at 3:04 am

    You should have gave in to “temptation!”. It only leads to the “dark side!”

  11. Nice I approve

  12. /r/SexistRevenge would love this one

  13. Hopefully this opened your eyes to the true nature of religion and you’ve ditched that toxic crap since then…

  14. The crazy I take from this is that the boys didnt already have belts. Its such a basic item.

  15. There, They’re, Their

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    CorrosiveAlkonost April 5, 2022 at 3:04 am

    Okay, correct me if I’m wrong… I don’t see the MC here. It just seems like the dudes had to wear belts for nothing and the youth leader was just a misogynistic fuck.

  17. “the boys wouldn’t few the temptation…”? Huh?

  18. *their

  19. This isn’t really a malicious compliance.

    What you and the other girls did WAS malicious (but not really compliance as you would not have gone by the rules if the boys didn’t have to), but it was against the wrong party.

    Your target should have been the person enforcing rules that stupid, not targeting the boys who had absolutely nothing to do with your situation.

    What you did was a dick move. You should be ashamed of yourself.

  20. Now THAT’S a great band name: “Few The Temptation”.

  21. I’m just glad those boys had belts. No reason to look homeless in public.

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    Curious-Insanity413 April 5, 2022 at 3:04 am

    Great work, but I can’t help but notice “few the temptation” and think of r/boneappletea …

  23. This isn’t malicious compliance, it’s just getting a stupid rule applied more fairly

  24. I’m calling BS

  25. idk man, sounds like you just made a bunch of boys dress more for no reason. If its the youth leader making you use bodysuits because of a stupid assumption wtf do the boys got to do with it.

  26. Is English your second language?

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